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Abelard & Heloise

The most famous love letters of the Middle Ages

EraFrance · 12th century
Country / cultureParis, France
CategoryForbidden love
Type of loveForbidden
EndingTragic
Quick answer

The philosopher-teacher Abelard and his brilliant student Heloise; their love produced a son and a secret marriage that ended in castration and religious life — and in some of history's most celebrated love letters.

01Why it matters

They are the intellectual lovers par excellence. Their correspondence founded the modern idea of love as a meeting of minds.

02The conflict

The revenge of Heloise's uncle Fulbert, who had Abelard castrated.

03The iconic moment

The exchange of letters from the convent, decades later.

04What survived

The "Historia Calamitatum" and their letters; their shared tomb in Père-Lachaise.

05Where to travel

Père-Lachaise Cemetery
Their tomb, the cemetery's oldest.
París · France

06Frequently asked questions

Why is the story of Abelard & Heloise famous?

They are the intellectual lovers par excellence. Their correspondence founded the modern idea of love as a meeting of minds.

How does the story of Abelard & Heloise end?

The exchange of letters from the convent, decades later. The "Historia Calamitatum" and their letters; their shared tomb in Père-Lachaise.

Where can you visit the story of Abelard & Heloise?

You can visit Père-Lachaise Cemetery, in París. Their tomb, the cemetery's oldest.

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