Forbidden love
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Forbidden love

To love against the world

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Forbidden love is born where family, class, religion or law say no. From Romeo and Juliet to Selena and Chris Pérez, these are the stories where loving was an act of rebellion.

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Romeo & Juliet
Renaissance Verona · Shakespeare's play, c. 1597

Romeo & Juliet

The universal archetype of forbidden love

The teenage lovers of two feuding families whose deaths became the universal archetype of forbidden love.

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Layla & Majnun
7th-c. Arabian legend · Nizami's poem, 1188

Layla & Majnun

The poet driven mad by love

The poet driven mad with love for Layla, married off to another by force; his longing became a Sufi allegory of the soul seeking God.

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Inês de Castro & Pedro I
Portugal · 14th century

Inês de Castro & Pedro I

The queen crowned after death

The lover murdered on the orders of the king's father, whom Pedro — once king — by legend exhumed and crowned queen after death.

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France · 12th century

Abelard & Heloise

The most famous love letters of the Middle Ages

The philosopher-teacher Abelard and his brilliant student Heloise; their love produced a son and a secret marriage that ended in castration and religious life — and in some of history's most celebrated love letters.

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Selena & Chris Pérez
USA (Tejano) · eloped in 1992

Selena & Chris Pérez

Amor prohibido, the Tejano anthem

The Queen of Tejano and her band's guitarist defied her father Abraham's disapproval and eloped on April 2, 1992; she was murdered on March 31, 1995, at 23.

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Edward VIII & Wallis Simpson
UK / USA · 1930s

Edward VIII & Wallis Simpson

He gave up a throne for love

King Edward VIII signed the abdication on December 10, 1936 to marry the twice-divorced American Wallis Simpson, declaring he could not reign "without the help and support of the woman I love."

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The Cowherd & the Weaver Girl
China · Han-dynasty origin

The Cowherd & the Weaver Girl

A bridge of magpies once a year

The mortal cowherd (star Altair) and the heavenly weaver girl (star Vega), separated by the Milky Way and reunited once a year, on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month, by a bridge of magpies.

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Ollantay & Cusi Coyllur
Inca world, Peru

Ollantay & Cusi Coyllur

The Inca love with a happy ending

The common-born general Ollantay loves Cusi Coyllur ("Joyful Star"), daughter of emperor Pachacútec; rebuffed for not being royal, he rebels for a decade while she is imprisoned, until the new emperor pardons and reunites them.

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The Butterfly Lovers
China · Eastern Jin

The Butterfly Lovers

The Romeo and Juliet of China

Zhu disguises herself as a man to study; Liang never realizes she is a woman; she is betrothed to another; he dies of heartbreak and she throws herself into his grave, from which they emerge as butterflies.

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Medieval legend · 12th century

Tristan & Isolde

The potion that doomed two lovers

The knight who escorts Isolde to marry his uncle, King Mark; on the voyage they mistakenly drink a love potion and fall into an impossible passion that destroys them.

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Lancelot & Guinevere
Arthurian legend · 12th century

Lancelot & Guinevere

The love that toppled Camelot

The greatest knight of the Round Table and Queen Guinevere, King Arthur's wife: an adulterous love that, once discovered, sinks the ideal kingdom of Camelot.

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Camila O’Gorman & Ladislao Gutiérrez
Argentina · 1847–1848

Camila O’Gorman & Ladislao Gutiérrez

A socialite and a priest, shot for love

The young Buenos Aires socialite and the Jesuit priest who fell in love, fled together in 1847, and were captured and executed by firing squad on Rosas's orders in 1848 — Camila eight months pregnant.

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Paris & Helen
Greek myth

Paris & Helen

The face that launched a thousand ships

The Trojan prince Paris abducts — or seduces — Helen, the most beautiful woman in the world and wife of the king of Sparta, igniting the Trojan War.

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The Lovers of Teruel
Spain · 13th-century legend

The Lovers of Teruel

A kiss that came a day too late

Penniless Diego leaves for five years to earn the right to marry Isabel; he returns a day too late, when she has already wed. He dies of grief and she dies kissing him over his coffin.

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Pyramus & Thisbe
Babylonian myth · Ovid

Pyramus & Thisbe

The love that spoke through a crack in the wall

Two Babylonian neighbors forbidden to love by their families, who whisper through a crack in the wall; a tragic misunderstanding leads them to a double suicide, sixteen centuries before Romeo and Juliet.

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Juan & Norma
Colombia · "Pasión de gavilanes", 2003

Juan & Norma

Passion, revenge and three brothers

The Reyes brother who approaches Norma Elizondo to avenge his sister and ends up hopelessly in love: the most scorching telenovela of the new millennium.

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Frequently asked questions

Why are we so drawn to forbidden love?

Because it pits desire against duty. The obstacle — the feuding family, the law, the class divide — makes the love more intense and turns it into myth. It is the oldest narrative engine in culture.

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