Crazy Horse & Black Buffalo Woman — The forbidden love of the great Lakota chief
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Crazy Horse & Black Buffalo Woman

The forbidden love of the great Lakota chief

EraUSA · c. 1870
Country / cultureLakota plains, Dakota
CategoryIndigenous love
Type of loveForbidden
EndingTragic
Quick answer

The Lakota warrior Crazy Horse loved Black Buffalo Woman, already married to another man; when he fled with her, the husband wounded him in the face, and the scandal cost him his rank among his people.

01Why it matters

Behind the most legendary warrior of the plains was a forbidden love that shaped his life and his downfall.

02The conflict

Her marriage and the norms of the Lakota people.

03The iconic moment

The flight of the two lovers across the plains.

04What survived

The Crazy Horse Memorial, carved into a Dakota mountain.

Fact-check note. Crazy Horse never allowed himself to be photographed; the facts come from Lakota oral tradition.

05Frequently asked questions

Why is the story of Crazy Horse & Black Buffalo Woman famous?

Behind the most legendary warrior of the plains was a forbidden love that shaped his life and his downfall.

How does the story of Crazy Horse & Black Buffalo Woman end?

The flight of the two lovers across the plains. The Crazy Horse Memorial, carved into a Dakota mountain.

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